Life’s Too Short
I was bothered when I heard the news of Ryan’s passing. My family is from West Chester, and a few of my cousins went to school with a few of the Jackass guys. I was bothered by the fact that such a young life was taken so early. I was reminded of how precious life can be as well as how the decisions we make(no matter how small), can change lives permanently. 5 years ago I was nearly killed by a drunk driver. I was heading home one night when a car driven by a drunk driver(over twice the legal limit) traveling at a high rate of speed crossed over into my lane and collided with me head on, totalling my car. My hand went through the windshield, and I injured my knees and back. It was over 2 weeks before I could stand back up on my own two feet, and 6 months of physical therapy to recover. I lost my job as a result of the accident.
We’re all human and make mistakes, but what probably seemed like such a small decision on that drivers part, getting into that car with 3 other individuals-driving drunk and colliding with me, could’ve killed all of us. My car was flung into a guard rail. Had our speeds been any higher, my car would’ve rolled down an embankment. By chance, I had the opportunity to speak to the driver over the phone. No remorse, and she didn’t seem to understand the gravity. This was her 2nd DUI, and third car accident. For her, it sucks to think that history will probably repeat itself unless they take her license away…. My view on life changed after this incident. I hope that Dunn’s passing makes us call question our mortality as well as the decisions we make. At 28, I have a family that relies on me. Not for one second to do I lose sight of that. The headlines would’ve been far different had that car struck other oncoming vehicles. Luckily, that didn’t happen.
It’s my sincerest hope that this incident-accident, and the premature death of a young guy, shows us all how short life can be, and how we shouldn’t take it for granted. It’s a damn shame when you think about it….
~Joe (D.C.)
